It’s OK to be a fool or foolish sometimes. It is an admission you are human. We all try to be cool and appear as being perfect. No one is free of flaws and it makes us all more unique and special. Drop the tough act and allow yourself to be yourself. However that takes being vulnerable and finding out who you are and discovering that person who you are. One thing I will say is no matter what you have heard is that God indeed loves you just the way you are…paraphrased from Billy Joel of course.