Rambling About Shaming

There seems to be a lot of shaming in the media today or perhaps it’s the bravery and anonymity of people on social media baiting people into saying really nasty and negative things. What I find sad is when people venerate people for being in their minds the best thing since sliced bread and oxygen while tearing another person down for not being good enough in their minds.

Peyton Manning gets lauded in these parts while Cam Newton is vilified for one reason or another. Facebook can be a bastion of judgmental people (I have been one at times) but there have been some venomous comments made about famous people because they don’t fall in line with their politics or religious slant.

Now I am not without fault but there are some who are very nasty because they have been taught they have to be to elevate their position in an argument. A lot of shaming is a result of hidden prejudice and discrimination. It seems like the volume of people online is deafening and disappointing. Maybe we need to turn down the noise and have constructive dialogue.

Maybe we should all chill out. Take a time out. Say something nice for a change.

4 thoughts on “Rambling About Shaming”

  1. It seems that we have outgrown the legacy of not spouting off everything that is in our head. People just say anything that comes to mind. Without using filters. It is a sad thing. There is no place in this world for shaming. I think a lot of it is the anonymity of the Internet. Just my two cents worth.

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  2. I was raised that if I had nothing nice to say don’t say anything, if I see something I don’t like I don’t comment I just move on. I teach my children the same. The internet is a wonderful thing but it has created this culture of what you would never say to someone’s face it’s OK to say online, for me that’s not OK

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