I have found that picking ones battles is a good rule of thumb. Sometimes it’s best to keep the peace and then there are times when you have to go to war. Conflict and me suck, I am horrible at confronting people but I have to get over that. Part of finding yourself is knowing what you are willing to go to the mat for and to interrupt the status quo. So many people argue over everything and that isn’t really good for the soul or the spirit. Be picky over what you want to fight over because not everything is worth it.
In retrospect, very few things are worth it, and there are different levels of battle, not all of which are appropriate for a given situation. There is a proper balance in this for everyone, learning which battles are worth it, and at what cost, and it’s different for each of us. Thank you for making me think. I appreciate your posts.
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I believe in choosing your battles wisely and scarcely ☺️
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So damn True👌🏼My husband tells people the reason for us bring married 20 years this year is because we pick our battles💁🏻
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