What ya say matters in the world, perhaps now more than ever. It can be a challenge to keep up with ever changing social conventions. People will trip up and make mistakes in what they say. Its important to educate and have some grace. I say stuff that can be seen as insensitive and perhaps backwards, yeah believe it or not. Being contrite is important and changing ones heart and mind can be a great way to advance understanding and peace. To me this is not political correctness its just being polite and loving your neighbor as you love yourself.