I am in my fifties and I wonder if I have my stuff together. To be honest, I have never thought that. So much of who I am is a grownup on the outside and a child-like person on the inside. Being in the company of other men intimidates me because they seem to be so much more put together than I am. With that being said, I resolve to be who I am and hope that I have a place in this world where my brand of “manliness” has a place at the table.