I am thinking about the difference between flirting and being friendly. Can you be friendly without it coming across as flirtatious. Perhaps its possible to get the wrong idea about ones social engagement with other people. At my age I don’t think its appropriate to flirt with someone much, much younger than myself. When I see older folks flirting with younger folks it comes across as creepy. I am married so out of respect to my wife I don’t flirt or something like that. What do you think?
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You got a point there re flirting and being friendly. When does it cross that fine line? I agree, it’s creepy if someone much older flirts with someone younger.
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IMHO, someone can be friendly without being flirty. It all boils down to intent & motivation. And if you want to ensure that the situation is only “friendly”, just mention your significant other in the conversation to draw a line. I do agree with the age-related creepy flirt factor…😕
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I am 45 and I am friends with younger bloggers of both genders and I am always careful not to cross a line there. I want people to know I am here to be a friend and to make a connection with people of like mind and interest. I hope that makes sense.
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Sure does makes sense! Cheers! ☺
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Ohh dear gr8 topic….Flirting is the best medicine to your heart & to remain excited,..but it must be in proper way,both must be mature by minds to handle that..both must remain very cool at conversation…serious thing so called “love” can also be happened from flirting..& sometimes flirting is not for “that”,it can be for friendly relationship & as a funny stuff!!!!!!! & yes! it’s creepy if old man flirts with younger !!.
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Great post! I have to say, I accidentally found myself in a situation like this. I considered that I was being “kind” if you will, not flirtatious at all. The other person however, absolutely misconstrued my kindness as flirting. I was flabbergasted! As a result, I always makes sure to err on the side of caution. Its unfortunate, as it seems these days people cannot be kind and friendly and take that at face value, rather assuming other intentions.
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I’m 45 and with having friends of all ages and genders I take cautions as to not come across as creepy or inappropriate. I hope that makes sense.
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Absolutely and good for you for doing so!
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I also find it creepy when older people flirt with much younger ones. I think anyone can be friendly without being flirty too. Especially if you’re already in a relationship.
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Delete ‘flirting’. Replace with ‘charming’. Platonic charm goes a long way.
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I never thought about it in those terms. It works though.
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