Is it so wrong to put something down on your calendar a few weeks ahead? Seems that some folks are afraid to because a better opportunity might arise and they don’t want to be committed. Seems to me that people don’t wanna be heavily scheduled these days but opt for freedom in the moment. There’s nothing wrong with that but you know there is something to be said about planning and making a point to being somewhere and to engage in activities you can be ready for in the future.
Sure emergencies arise and you have to change plans but you can’t borrow trouble especially when you have an invitation in where someone who cares about you wants to have your presence. Maybe you can help someone who might need you down the road.