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My Appreciation Of Women Who Blog

I am a 45 year old man which you would think I would be inspired by sports, cars and that sort of thing. Those things I do find interesting but when it comes to blogging I gravitate to websites featuring beauty, fashion, cooking and “girly things”. Yes I am not their target audience, but I think inspiration can come from surprising places. For me I enjoy the company of great women in my life, I find I relate better to women. Online this extends to my appreciation of women who blog.

This is not to say that men can’t get just as geeky but I just like the way women communicate online. I was raised by some great women so I am comfortable in learning more about the things women like. Visually the color and content of women who blog is very interesting. In my mind it transcends the traditional gender interests into something unique and personal. Yes my dude card was handed in years ago. I am not ashamed of that.

Perhaps its like that movie with Mel Gibson “What Women Want”. Gibson’s character had to understand women in order to speak to them in advertising. All men should seek to understand the things women like and what they think in order to have a better relationships and friendships with our wives, mothers, sisters, aunts, friends. There are differences and knowing what they are can build bridges of understanding and reduce conflict.

Here on WordPress its cool to see entire blogs focused on things that excite the author and makes them want to share it with everyone. I have always thought that fangirls are a great force for good in the world so I want to emulate that a little in what I do. So I look forward to exploring some great blogs written by some passionate people who just happen to be women. Thank you for putting up with a curious dude.

The Weekend Is Here

It’s the weekend good people. I hope you are looking forward to having a great time. I have had a decent week but like everything it could have been better. Now we have some fun to be had. What is going on with you?

Respect

Everyone has their own opinion. No two will have the same views on everything. People are fundamentally similar and different at the same time. I thank you WordPress community for the respect you have for differing opinion. Thank you for your open mindedness and courtesy. I do appreciate it.

Making Order of Ones Contacts

I have come to the realization that I follow a lot of people on various platforms of social media and blogging. When visiting those sites, I ask myself where do I know them from…Tumblr, WordPress, Twitter, Facebook, etc. Those situations remind me I can’t keep up with everyone. Maybe its the extrovert in me wanting to make as many contacts as possible, that is what makes me good at my job.

My brother-in-law has thousands of contacts on Facebook alone, he knows a lot of people having worked as a educator for a long time. Some people are just more social than others. Every person you meet online is a person, more than just a profile.

For me its contacts I have made through blogging networks and being a part of groups of various sorts. Someone has probably developed an app to help keep your contacts organized and to tell you where you know them from. As in anything in life you will develop a core group of people who will be interested in having a meaningful friendship with you, people who will like what you post and be concerned about you in general. Having a online life can be challenging, but its important for real world interactions with folks from your online life. Putting flesh to those who you know digitally is important.

Rambling About Instagram

I think Instagram is a great instant photo sharing app. It does so many things well. However in looking at my past pix it seems its mostly food I capture or places where I get food. Maybe its just me buying into a stereotype about the platform that you gotta do a picture of what you are eating at any given time. People are interested in food but they are also interested in other things too like people, places, pets, that sort of thing. To me it helps tell ones personal story in a medium that says a thousand words and more.

There are other things I capture on Instagram such as events in my life and interesting things I see out and about.

What is your story with Instagram if you use it? How does it help tell the story of your life?

Your Posts, My Posts

As much as I love blogging and bloggers there is no way I can keep up with every post from every blogger I follow. Other things in life must be taken care of and blogging shouldn’t be a chore it should be something fun. Picking up from where you are at any given moment is probably the best way to keep up. If we took the time to look at every post from every blogger we knew then there would be less time for other things in life. Priorities do matter after all. Your posts are a part of you and my posts are a part of me but they aren’t everything that should consume us.

What is your experience with this? How do you manage your blogging time?