Category Archives: Rambling

Ramble On Narcissism

Just asking the question to the blogosphere, are we too wrapped up in narcissism and those who are stuck on themselves. I know some have suffered because of it but is it possible to move on and find healing from it all?

Some folks are really stuck on themselves and that is unfortunate because there is a great big world out there that they could benefit from. However can narcissism be something that impacts more folks than it really should?

Help me understand more about this whole thing. Am I missing something here?

A Ramble About Life

Life is family, friends, community and love. Life is about taking advantage of things that come your way while returning the favor. Living means being all-in to the things you are passionate. Keep your life in check though, don’t let it get away. Be good in this life because it truly matters. God is in the details so you are covered in life.

A Ramble About Having Enough

having-enough-3Wants and needs are two different things when it comes to people. There is a list of things we desire but there are also the items that matter, sustain life and keep us going. So many are chasing the brass ring and accumulating wealth and material goods they give up a piece of their hearts and souls to get their hearts desire. If you think about it we have enough to have a good life.

Perhaps we should be grateful to just have enough to keep food on the table, roof over head, etc. It’s OK not to have the latest and greatest stuff. Recently I was reminded of how many people are in need of quality health care so they can live and exist. Homes are getting bigger for some while others can barely afford rent. There is connection between heart and treasure. Many people live a simple life where they make sacrifices for others and their families.

Greed is not Holy. I am grateful for what God has given and perhaps he has a better idea of what I need than I do. Instead of keeping up with the Joneses, I need to keep up with how others are doing in this world. So it’s a simple plan to have just enough to get by with just a little help from the Heavens and the Earth. Be grateful for the basics, they are often enough.

A Few Rambling Thoughts

Here are a few rambling thoughts….

  • Success isn’t always about wealth and status.
  • Just because something isn’t “name brand” doesn’t mean it’s not good.
  • Prestige is temporal because that stuff changes.
  • Be yourself because that is the best thing you can do.
  • People of faith come in all shapes, sizes, orientation, heritage and creeds.
  • Just because you didn’t go to an elite school doesn’t mean you aren’t smart or qualified.
  • Coming across as judgy makes you look sad.
  • At 17 you have time to develop a “backup plan”
  • It’s OK to admit you aren’t all that and a bag of chips.
  • Forgiveness never goes out of style.
  • Bigger isn’t always better, it just means you have to work harder to take care of it.
  • Rambling thoughts can become full blown posts in and of themselves.
  • Mother’s are awesome.
  • Monday is inevitable.

Answering The Call

When was the last time you answered a call for help? In the past has your call for help been answered?  A call for help is an opportunity to be someones super hero when they are in distress. Everyone has that time in their lives when they need a helping hand or maybe an ear that will listen to your troubles. The help we give can be the one thing that saves a life. We all have times when we need assistance. For some a prayer is a cry for help while others will use a phone, computer or other method. Today will  you answer the call if it comes? If you need help will you call for help?

Rambling About Selfies

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Yes, I am a 46 year old man who does selfies. I have been told I am like a teenage girl in my doing so many selfies. I enjoy being a dork and that is one way I do that. There are more interesting things in the world to post about and I hope to encounter more of that through life. Selfies can be a innocent thing or a narcissistic thing people do…I can’t figure out which one I am doing yet. Can one do the selfie and remain humble at the same time?